Recently my son Jude was on the beach in St. Pete with his girlfriend Abby, playing a bit of guitar, and a passerby took these shots, shared with him, later shared with me, and now, shared with you. They are so moving to me, because in them, I see him as the young man he is, with his own interests and relationships, moving forward to versions of places I will never see, with his whole life ahead of him. We’ve always had a good relationship and it remains strong as he gets older, and I’m grateful for that, I like to think a piece of me will travel with him on his adventures, even after I’m gone. I like to think that passing the torch is really what life is all about. Anyways, I’m proud of him, I think this is a beautiful photo, reflecting his grace and the quiet moment he was sharing with his love. All of this choked me up.
St. Pete
Posted byDoug HoekstraPosted in2023, change, connections, equanimity, family, fatherhood, giving, Jude Stories, love, observation, peace, perspective, place, redemption, Relationships, time, Writing, zenTags:essay2023, fatherandson, impermanence, mysonjude, nashvillewriters, parenthood, stpetersburgflorida, time
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